Signs you re dating a loser
Or do they just shrug and say, “This is the way I am”?
But if you go into a creepy situation, they stand up.The truth is that we have a choice – within limits, admittedly – over how we feel.I’m not saying someone else can’t do something that irritates you or elates you.They may talk a good game, but they never follow through.Are they looking for an anger management class at the local hospital or community centre?And they certainly never change because of you and your outside influence, which they will probably call “nagging.” So if you are dating a loser and are waiting around for them to realize how wonderful you are and change themselves as a result, don’t hold your breath waiting for it to happen!
Derek Lamont, BSc, is an experienced dating coach and veteran pickup artist.
These are some of the factors that can help you decide if you’re dating a loser. Well, sometimes people “settle” for someone because they doubt themselves, they doubt they can ever find a better person to love them.
Sometimes it’s just inertia, which is another word for laziness.
A loser doesn’t expect or require much from themselves.
Perhaps they’re lazy and have had it too easy all their life.
First, and most important, you need to trust your gut, trust your instincts.