Dating a man that is separated
There is no "you and him." There is "him and her"—and, to put it bluntly, you are a figment of his imagination.
He wants your heart the same way he wants to give you his heart: whole and undivided.My brother in- law worked with someone who was separated for two months and had two kids.We went on a blind date and have been together 9 years, married 6 and have a darling 2 year old!Dear Renita, I met a man online who I think is truly remarkable.His profile listed him as single, but when I met him I found out he was legally separated and living in his own apartment.Must admit, someone seperated would not have been in my consideration before, but as I found out, you really can't judge til you know all the reasons. If I were single i would want to be absolutely sure they were not still together and I would want them to have been separated for a while and know what the relationship with the ex is like.
Glad I'm happily married as dating with kids sounds like a mine field!
But there can be no future with a man who is legally bound to another woman.
In my judgment, it’s best to leave married folks to themselves to work out their differences and decide what they are going to do about the future of their marriage.
Not sure on this one - I think I would but like another lady said I'd have to be very sure they were completely over and know what their current relationship was like if they had kids.
My ex husband starting chatting to and emailing a girl he liked while we were still married and together, then told her her he'd left, then about a month later he left, and another month after that he's introducing her to our kids without my knowledge.
Five months later (after a lot of thinking) I started a relationship with someone I met, I told her the full story and to be honest I still don't know if she fully believed me or just wanted a bit of fun.